A new study reveals that young people who perceive their caregivers as distracted by smartphones and other devices report feeling less secure in their relationships. The findings underscore the importance of dedicated, device-free time for families.
Study Highlights Impact of Parental Distraction
According to the research, children and adolescents who feel they are competing with a phone for a caregiver's attention experience diminished relationship security. The study, published by CNN, suggests that even brief moments of distraction can affect a child's sense of being valued.
“When caregivers are frequently looking at their devices during interactions, children may interpret that as a lack of interest or priority,” the report stated. The effect was consistent across age groups, from young children to teenagers.
Recommendations for Families
Experts recommend setting aside dedicated times when the entire family refrains from using devices. This could include meal times, before-bed routines, or specific “tech-free” hours each day. The goal is to ensure that children feel fully seen and heard without having to vie for attention.
The study also noted that the quality of interactions matters more than the total amount of time spent together. Even short, focused engagement without devices can strengthen the parent-child bond.
Broader Context of Digital Distraction
This research adds to a growing body of evidence about the negative effects of screen time on family dynamics. Previous studies have linked parental phone use to increased child behavior problems and decreased responsiveness. The current study specifically highlights the child's perception of security as a key factor.
Caregivers are encouraged to model healthy device habits and communicate openly with children about when and why devices are used. Setting boundaries together can help mitigate feelings of neglect.



