AI chatbots are entering the dating scene, acting as a modern-day Cyrano de Bergerac for the lovelorn. According to a new survey from the dating app Kippo, one in five singles now use artificial intelligence to help craft messages or generate dating profiles. The trend is reshaping how people approach online dating, with AI tools offering suggestions for opening lines, profile bios, and even entire conversations.
How AI Is Changing Dating
The survey, conducted in May 2026 among 2,000 U.S. singles, found that 22% of respondents had used AI chatbots like ChatGPT or Google Bard for dating-related tasks. Among Gen Z users, the number rose to 35%. Common uses include writing witty opening messages, improving profile descriptions, and generating responses to matches. Some users even rely on AI to simulate conversations before real interactions.
Kippo co-founder and CEO David Park said, “People are using AI to take the pressure off. It’s like having a Cyrano in your pocket, but instead of whispering sweet nothings, it’s helping you find the right words.” The app itself has integrated AI features that suggest icebreakers based on a user’s profile.
Concerns About Authenticity
Not everyone is thrilled. Some dating experts worry that AI-generated messages could erode authenticity. Relationship coach Sarah Jones said, “If you can’t write your own opener, what happens when you meet in person? The AI can’t continue the conversation for you.” Others note that AI might perpetuate stereotypes or create generic responses that fail to connect.
Despite concerns, the trend is growing. A separate study from the Pew Research Center found that 15% of U.S. adults have used AI for dating advice, with younger users leading the charge. The rise of AI in dating coincides with broader adoption of generative AI tools for personal tasks.
Industry Response
Dating apps are adapting. Tinder and Bumble have introduced AI-powered features that suggest conversation starters and detect potentially harmful messages. Hinge offers a “prompt generator” that uses AI to help users answer profile questions. The goal, according to industry insiders, is to reduce friction and improve user experience.
However, some apps prohibit AI-generated content in their terms of service. Bumble’s policy states that users must “be themselves” and not use automated tools to create profiles or messages. Enforcement remains tricky, as AI-generated text can be difficult to detect.
